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Why We Ignore Good Advice (Even When We Know Better)

Written by Danielle Price Griffin | Aug 15, 2025 12:00:00 PM

We've all been there: receiving sound advice yet choosing to sidestep it.

This puzzling behavior often stems from cognitive biases and emotional factors.​


Understanding Our Resistance to Good Advice

  • Behavioral Biases: Our inherent biases can lead us to resist beneficial changes, even when advised otherwise.​
  • Ego and Ownership: Fear of appearing weak or admitting fault can prevent us from accepting and implementing good advice.​
  • Emotional Intelligence: Low emotional intelligence may cause impulsive reactions, leading us to dismiss rational advice.​

Recognizing these patterns can help us become more receptive to valuable guidance.​