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Book Brew 105: Want to Win? Get Really Good at Boring

Written by Danielle Price Griffin | Apr 14, 2025 1:30:00 PM

Success isn’t about genius. It’s not about talent or luck. The real secret? It’s boredom. The unsexy, repetitive grind that most people avoid—but the winners master.


The Unseen Grind Behind Success

“Pain + Reflection = Progress. You will think that it would be wonderful if you could just get what you want without having to struggle for it, but you wouldn’t actually like that at all. It would feel empty and meaningless. Struggling to achieve goals is what makes those goals meaningful." ~ Ray Dalio

Too many business owners chase the exciting, the flashy, and the fun. They want to create, innovate, and inspire—but they don’t want to do the daily, unremarkable work that actually leads to success. The truth? Those who win in business aren’t the ones who do what’s exciting every day. They’re the ones who do what works, day in and day out—even when it’s boring and repetitive.


Lesson I Learned from My Grandmother (and the ER)

I know the power of repetition firsthand. When my grandmother had dementia, I had to repeat myself hundreds of times in an hour. "Grandma, you already ate." "Grandma, it's okay, you're safe." Every time, I said it with patience and compassion because that was what needed to be done.  

The same held true when I was a nurse in the ER. Patients under the influence or suffering from memory loss needed the same explanations over and over. It wasn’t glamorous. It wasn’t fun. But it was necessary.

And it’s the same in business.


The Unsexy Path to Success: Mastering the
Mundane

Justin Welsh put it perfectly:

"Success is usually a result of the mundane, daily actions that compound over time. And the path isn't hidden — it's just boring enough that most people won't stick with it long enough to see any results.  So get good at boring. Really good at it. Better at boring than your competition.”"

The best athletes, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders aren’t out chasing the squirrels and shiny objects—they’re outworking everyone by doing the basics over and over, refining them to perfection. 

Too many entrepreneurs try to hit home runs when they haven’t mastered a single swing—or, in some cases, don’t even know what a bat is. They chase trends instead of building foundations. But the ones who win? They do the reps. They refine. They execute—again and again.

Michael Jordan (my favorite player, BTW) played every game full out because he knew fans had sacrificed to be there. He didn’t take nights off. He showed up and did the work over and over.


Consistency is the Ultimate Game-Changer

"It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently." ~ Tony Robbins

  • You won’t build a thriving business by occasionally posting on social media. 
  • You won’t achieve financial success by saving money once in a while. 
  • You won’t develop expertise by practicing sporadically. 

The winners are those who embrace the routine, the repetition, and the refinement.

“Don’t leave your coffee for too long and then be surprised why it’s cold.  I’m not talking about coffee.” ~ Lewis Howes


The Truth Most Won’t Accept

Most people know what needs to be done. They just don’t want to do it. They want results without the grind. 

But as Sahil Bloom says: "You’ll achieve much more by being consistently reliable than by being occasionally ordinary."

It’s not about bursts of effort—it’s about showing up, day after day, doing the boring and mundane things that others won’t.


Get Comfortable Being Bored

If you want to win in business (and in life), take this advice to heart:

  • Do the work when no one’s watching.
  • “We are rewarded in public for what we practice intensely in private.” Tony Robbins.
  • Master the basics before chasing the new and shiny.
  • Measure your progress and refine your process.
  • “Learn from mistakes, and iterate effectively, you will make progress. The key is having good feedback loops and a clear way to measure success." - Ray Dalio
  • Be consistent and show up every day, even when you don’t feel like it.

At the end of the day, success doesn’t belong to the most talented. It belongs to those who outlast everyone else. Be the one who sticks with the discipline of the boring—long after everyone else has given up.

I challenge you: Pick one ‘boring’ task you’ve been avoiding. Do it every day for the next 30 days. No exceptions. Then watch what happens.


Ponder This

  1. If success is found in the small, daily actions, how can you ensure you’re showing up consistently?
  2. Think about a time when repeating something over and over (like learning a skill, working out, or training a team) led to growth. How can you apply that mindset to your business?


Books/Newsletters

  • Principles - Ray Dalio
  • 3-2-1 Thursday - James Clear
  • The Saturday Solopreneur - Justin Wesh