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# Social Proof Over Social Hype (And Other Grown-Up Metrics)

 March 13, 2026

![Picture of Danielle Price Griffin](https://app.hubspot.com/settings/avatar/31045232924d123af765cd9b1925a9ce) [Danielle Price Griffin](https://thoughtsbrewing.com/blog/author/danielle)

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I used to chase followers like they were golden tickets *(I mean, wouldn't you if they led you to Oompa Loompas?? But, sadly, they don't....)*. Now I care more about who sticks around after they click.

The more boring and functional the metric, the more it matters.

### Give me:

- A client who refers me to three more
- An email reply that says, “This changed how I think”
- A 90% course completion rate

That’s the stuff that moves a business forward. Not likes. Not reach. Not “impressions” (*what does that even mean, anyway? Like, isn't that the horrible thing the dentist does??*).

What works: Proof. Progress. People who stay.  
What doesn’t: Posting just to prove you’re alive online.

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If the metric doesn’t reflect value, it doesn’t deserve your energy. Focus on what builds trust, not what just builds charts.

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