So this guy (let’s call him Ethan Fumblecode) asked us for advice. And oh boy, did it unlock a rant.
Meet Ethan Fumblecode: Fresh Grad, Big Dreams
He recently graduated from college with some kind of tech degree. As you all probably know already, the job market is kinda donkey turds, so Ethan is having a hard time finding a job in his field of study.
Ethan asked us about our business. He then told us his plan, “Yeah, I’m just thinking of skipping the whole 9-5 thing and starting my own thing.” Oh, Ethan.
“It’s a temptation that exists for everyone — for talk and hype to replace action.” — Ryan Holiday
After I reflected on our interaction with Ethan and my own work experience, I have some advice I’ll put out there for you young whipper snappers who may be considering the same thing as him.
Why the 9-5 Isn’t the Enemy
“What are you trying to maximize that might actually be costing you?” - Justin Welsh
The “9-5s” I have had over the course of the last 30 years (holy forking shirt balls, how did I get so old!?) have taught me irreplaceable lessons I never would have learned had I gone straight into entrepreneurism.
“We often think that we want an open road and the ability to choose any direction for ourselves. But sometimes, what we need is a tunnel that can reduce our choices and send us in a focused direction.” James Clear
Working for others can teach you a lot instead of skipping that step and trying straight for your own thing. It helps to build up a foundation of skills that you can then build “your own thing” on top of.
- Teamwork → Learning how to build great things while not strangling coworkers
- Importance of Punctuality → Showing up is half the battle and shows respect (“Move like you’re late and wait like you’re early.” Shane Parrish)
- Customer Service → People are wild. You learn fast. (Don’t mess with people handling your food or selecting the size of your needle or catheter)
- All kinds of finance/accounting skills → AKA not accidentally committing tax fraud
- Organization → Managing chaos without losing your mind (and when you do lose your mind, knowing how to find it again)
- Communication → Saying what needs to be said, clearly, kindly, and without passive-aggressive sprinkles
- Sales & Marketing → Even if you hate it, you’ll use it (a lot!)
- Technology → Understanding how it works so you’re not at the mercy of it
- Flexibility + Innovation → You figure out how to make it work when nothing’s working
Try Some Hiking Before You Attempt Everest
“The dictionary is the only place that success comes before work.” — Vince Lombardi
So, while I’m a huge supporter of anyone wanting to start their own business, I think in many cases, it makes sense to learn the fundamentals from someone else first. If you’re just starting out like Ethan, you might want to climb a few practice mountains before you free solo El Capitan.
Ponder This
- What job taught you a lesson that still shows up in your business today?
- Are you chasing freedom or avoiding structure?
- What would “learning on someone else’s dime” look like for you?
Books/Newsletters
- Ego Is the Enemy - Ryan Holiday
- The Saturday Solopreneur - Justin Welsh
- 3-2-1 - James Clear
- Brain Food - Shane Parrish

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